Archive - Unresolving

May 2025

A Gorgeous, Ugly Day In Bed

Fighting the shame of holing up on a beautiful day.

May 30 •

When Did TV Stop Worrying About Money?

The curious disappearance of middle-class plots.

May 23 •

Is Having a Child Worth It?

This is the question we should be asking. And right now, it's not—for me, and maybe for you.

May 9 •

From Corporate to Creative Writer

A workshop for people who want to explore writing but don't know where to begin.

May 2 •

April 2025

The Sunk Cost Fallacy of Your Career

Plus a special announcement!

Apr 25 •

What you write vs. what people read

Writing a feminist novel about internalized misogyny, the fierce urge to be understood, and the liberating realization that you probably never will be.

Apr 18 •

Chelsea and Rick From White Lotus Are Not Aspirational

The emotionally unavailable man—a tale as old as time.

Apr 9 •

On "People Skills" and Women Leaving Tech

Some thoughts on the topic for Women In Tech Day

Apr 4 •

March 2025

Behind the Shiny Publication Post

It took over a decade to get my book on the shelves—some thoughts on the process and how to keep going.

Mar 18 •

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